How to Manage Your Holiday Stress

Holiday Stress - Photo by Shutterstock

Holiday Stress

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The holiday season is supposed to be the “happiest time of year.” At least that is the message that we hear in the songs, holiday specials, and all of the other messages–both overt and subliminal–to which we are subjected during the weeks between Thanksgiving and Christmas. (And let’s face it…the holiday hype now begins long before Thanksgiving.)

The fact is, however, that for many people, this isn’t the happiest time of year. Moreover, it is a time when stress levels just ratchet up and up and up. There are pressures to spend more money…sometimes money we don’t have…so the credit cards get a work out with only passing thought to how they will get paid in the new year.

There are also pressures to eat things that we know aren’t good for us; but they go with the season, right? The standard Christmas gathering isn’t complete without fudge and Christmas cookies of every shape and description. Many of us just resign ourselves to gaining 5 or 10 pounds during this time of year…again, with little thought as to how that will make us feel as we hit the new year.

And then, there are the family get togethers and relationship pressures that we all face. Getting together with certain family members that we would rather not see, but they are, well…family. You have to deal with their intrusive questions that are supposed to show that they care but really make you feel like shouting, “It’s none of your business!”

All of these pressures add up, and instead of feeling happy, many of us just feel isolated, depressed, and dejected. For strategies for managing stress during the holiday season, go here for a “cheat sheet” on how to manage and reduce your stress as well as building natural resilience so that you feel less stress even when you are experiencing stressful situations.

If you need more help with managing your stress and think that having a coach would be helpful to you, please contact me. I am a certified Life Strategies Coach and a certified Stress Management Coach. I am also an Independent Coach Consultant with CareerHMO, a company that specializes in assisting individuals who find themselves at a career crossroads either by chance or by choice.

I offer individual and group coaching services on stress management. I also offer workshops on stress management for teachers and busy professionals. If you would like to have me come to speak to your group, organization, or company, please contact me using the form below.

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